Nervous to try

**jamesgree12364** · Jan 1, 2026, 5:43 PM

So I have sucked one cock in my life, 16 years ago, when I was 16. (he was 15 at the time)

I didn't love the experience, like a good boy, I swallowed, but it didn't move me in any way.

The urge always stayed with me, the idea and thought of sucking cock makes me ROCK hard.

Deep down, I want to do it again.

A couple of years ago, I tried meeting up with someone I knew who was gay. He found out through a drunken conversation that I had once experimented with a guy in high school, and this got him keen on my mouth.

We met up but when I walked into his house, I had a damn near panic attack! I couldnt do it. He was great and let me go, but said if I ever want to try again, to hit him up.

I want to, but I'm nervous. I also feel bad for this friend of mine as I gave him blue balls. A part of me (on top of wanting to try it) feels I owe him on some level also. To my knowledge, as well, he has kept my secret, which I greatly appreciate.

Here is kinda what I want from this: can someone here either pump me up into doing it or talk me down to earth?

**SAW1969** · Jan 2, 2026, 3:09 AM

Have him give you head a few times. Maybe you'll get more comfortable with the idea of sucking cock after being with him.

**DLcocklove** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:36 AM

Maybe you need a drink or two to loosen you up and then you will have the courage to take him in your mouth.

**Kip2june** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:49 AM

It took me over 20 years to suck my first cock. Now I kick myself for waiting so long. After sucking the first one when i was SO nervous I sucked a few more in the weeks after. Then I was not even getting hard when sucking as I was still nervous. Now the last cock I sucked last summer. I did get hard after he came in my mouth. So now the next time I hope to be really hard, and no longer nervous. It takes time to get over it, but is WELL worth it.

You should commit to sucking cock a few times to see if you really like it or not. My bet is that you will love it, and become a cock sucking cum slut like me.

**DLcocklove** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:56 AM

Originally Posted by Kip2june

It took me over 20 years to suck my first cock. Now I kick myself for waiting so long. After sucking the first one when i was SO nervous I sucked a few more in the weeks after. Then I was not even getting hard when sucking as I was still nervous. Now the last cock I sucked last summer. I did get hard after he came in my mouth. So now the next time I hope to be really hard, and no longer nervous. It takes time to get over it, but is WELL worth it.

You should commit to sucking cock a few times to see if you really like it or not. My bet is that you will love it, and become a cock sucking cum slut like me.

I was also a late starter, around 50 as well, even though I was curious for much longer. I agree after a few cocks you lose your nervousness

**tongueteaser** · Jan 2, 2026, 5:44 PM

First time I was too nervous and backed out. Second time I was also. I was shaking with nervousness. The third time I drank a few and relaxed. Met the guy and told him lets get acquainted a few minutes. It helps a lot. I was asked to play with his cock and did. I was too nervous still to proceed. He suddenly said he needed me to suck his dick now! I was right down on it and oh boy. The dick tasting and wetting his cock and sucking the head came so naturally. I then started deeper and deeper in me as I worked up and down on him. I for some reason swirled my tongue around his yummy head as I sucked it. It didnt last but another minute and he was spurting and spurting cum all in me. I felt like a total slut swallowing and tasting it and was in heaven.

**licyou69** · Jan 3, 2026, 8:16 AM

Just a little over 3 years ago I sucked off my first man who I hooked up with online. We agreed to meet at my place during our lunch breaks. I'm a bit submissive and he's a bit dominant, yet easy going. He requested that I be naked for him when he arrived. I was nervous as heck when I rushed home before our agreed time. That nervousness intensified into outright shaking as I stripped all of my clothes off and realized I was standing near my front door, completely naked for a man who was going to walk in my front door soon and put his cock in my mouth. I kept looking out my window and I was kind of actually shocked when a man pulled up and got out of his pickup truck. Lots of deep breathing is the only advice I can give. By the time he got inside my door I had composed myself, we got down to business, and by the time I went back to work I had his cum inside me. It was all very surreal.

**tongueteaser** · Jan 3, 2026, 10:37 PM

Same way I felt and experienced.

**jamesgree12364** · Jan 5, 2026, 11:47 PM

Thanks to everyone for their experience. Still yet to pull the trigger, I know my friend would probably be ecstatic to fulfill my fantasy and fill my mouth haha

Watching cock sucker/bi hypno videos is pretty much 100% of my porn atm, when i get hard its the first thing I think about.

I dont know why I am so nervous to try, deep down I want to, I know I do.

**Kip2june** · Jan 6, 2026, 6:23 AM

I was really, really drunk the first time I played with a guy?s cock. i did not suck it, but it was the first cock I played with and he came on my chest.

It took around 5 years after that to actually meet a guy, suck his cock, and swallow his cum. I was really happy to have done it. The sucked a few more and was not so excited so thought it wasn?t for me. Then after a break sucked a cock in the forest this past summer, and I was really excited, and hard after he came in my mouth.

So you have to definitely give it a try again, and maybe a few times. Your friend sounds perfect. Maybe tell him you want to try it many times over a couple of weeks to see if you like it, or not.

I have been testing myself with watching hot women masterbate, vs. hard cock cumming. And cock turns me on more by far. I am almost shocked as I love looking at sexy women, but apparently love cock more.

**dicktrobing** · Jan 6, 2026, 10:26 AM

Talk to him, if he is a good friend he will understand, discuss your fears etc

**Tag200** · Yesterday, 11:40 AM

I too have procrastinated and dragged things out . Often having months or years between limited gay sex experience’s. Even now it’s been years since I sucked those two cocks one time each with no cum. In my mind I want to suck 1-2 cocks weekly; but being married with kids , busy with work and just plain nervous in general and disease I hesitate. My advice for what it is worth is push through the nerves and do it. Even with my limited experience I know sucking cock is great and turns me on so much.

**Wanting2** · Yesterday, 4:53 PM

If weren’t nervous I would say something is unusual. You probably were that way with a women to the first time.

**dowmass** · Yesterday, 6:11 PM

I am assuming that all this talk is SUCKING A COCK is about someone you know, someone? you trust and someone you know is healthy.
I?d love to, but I hear these days that oral sex is not risk free. The moment I say let us get tested, folks just disappear. Either they are lazy, do not want to spend or are just lazy. Or maybe they are carrying the bug?

Or maybe it is an ego thing? like how dare someone question if I am healthy?

**Tag200** · Yesterday, 11:58 PM

Originally Posted by dowmass

I am assuming that all this talk is SUCKING A COCK is about someone you know, someone? you trust and someone you know is healthy.
I?d love to, but I hear these days that oral sex is not risk free. The moment I say let us get tested, folks just disappear. Either they are lazy, do not want to spend or are just lazy. Or maybe they are carrying the bug?

Or maybe it is an ego thing? like how dare someone question if I am healthy?

this is part of my dragging it out , disease concerns not shut for me but I have a wife too

**jamesgree12364** · Today, 1:21 AM

Thank guys,
Im going to do it tommorw!
He is talking about me taking multiple loads.... which has made me rock hard but even more nervous haha

Pls give me more words of inspiration so i dont pull out!

**dicktrobing** · Today, 4:17 AM

Originally Posted by jamesgree12364

Thank guys,
Im going to do it tommorw!
He is talking about me taking multiple loads.... which has made me rock hard but even more nervous haha

Pls give me more words of inspiration so i dont pull out!

Sounds like you need to deal with that hardon, there is only way to deal with it and that is to eat his cock and taste his cum especially if he is a multiple cummer

If you were not nervous you would not enjoy it some much ................ it is a naughty pleasure