Here's my story... I am 42, re-married, father of 2 (out of the house now) and very bi-curious. I'm a good looking guy, I have never had a problem meeting women, particularly after my divorce. A couple years back, just before I met my current wife, I was out and started talking to a lady and things got a little flirty. After we had some drinks she said her husband was getting off work soon and was meeting her there. I was quite taken back, I didn't think I had misread things that much but I just accepted that she was playing games and directed my attention back toward the people I was there with. About half an hour later a guy came up to her and gave her a quick kiss and sat down. Shortly after that, she came over to me and said she wanted to introduce me to him. He was quite friendly but I was awkward because of the flirting between his wife and I earlier. After a few min of chit chat he offered to buy me a beer but I politely declined and went back to my friends. That was that I thought but an hour or 2 (and several drinks) later on my way out they stopped me and said now that your friends are gone have a drink with us, so I did, and after a couple more drinks she went to the restroom. After she left he said "she thinks your a pretty hot guy and said that you and her were flirting pretty heavily before I came". Buy this time I was more relaxed so I laughed and said yes but I didn't know she was married. He laughed and said "sometimes she doesn't know she is either" then he just came right out and said, "would you like to follow us to our house? It's not far and I have some nice micro-brewes and a hot tub, It could get fun." I said that I wasn't into that, that I was straight and he said "Oh no... nothing between you and I just with her. I was quite uncomfortable but I don't know if it was the drinks or what but I just said sure. When we finished our drink, we left. When we go to the house, they got out of the car, his pants were at his knees with a raging hard-on (She had been giving him road head) she got out and started stripping as she was walking to the front door, she was totally naked by the time she got there. By the time I got out of my car and inside, they were both naked and he was opening a bottle of wine. He asked me if I wanted a glass and I said I'd have one of those beers he promised. He headed for the kitchen and she walked over to be and started kissing me and took my shirt off, then undid and dropped my pants, sat me on the couch and started sucking my cock. He came back and watched her sucking me for a few seconds, came up and handed me the beer like we were watching a game or something and without a work started fucking her from behind. We messed around for a while and she said lets go to the bedroom. When we got there she sat on the bed and grabbed my cock and lead me to stand beside her husband and started sucking our cocks mine then his then mine etc. then she tightened her grip and started rubbing our cocks together. I have to say, that was probably the hottest second of my life. I actually got weak in my knees. Then she put both our cocks in her mouth. It was incredible. She started telling us to do things like grab each others butt and rub each others chest... I was so hot and it sounded so sexy I just did it. Then she had us lay on the bed and grabbed my hand and put it on his cock and held it there and guided me to start jacking him off then my other hand to start jacking myself off. She sat up and started watching and playing with herself. It wasn't more than a a few min. of that until he came. I was amazed how much the feeling of his cock throbbing and his cum running down my hand turned me on. She bent down and licked it up the spit it in his mouth then got on top of me and started fucking me and kissed me full on the mouth... there was still a little cum on he lips and I could taste it, again, it just got me hotter. After a little more play she got up and in a almost desperate voice (which was again I though was incredibly hot because it was clear how turned on she was) told him to suck my cock. She watched for a while and then straddled my head and I gave her oral as she bent down and sucked my cock with her husband. That started a chain of events that I had never experienced. I came hard and they started licking my cum and kissing with my cock between them and and less than 2 min later I came again. Then she started kissing me with my cum in her mouth, I was disgusted and tried to move away but she kept going. As she did that he started sucking my cock again and I started getting worked up again and started to enjoy the cum in my mouth and on my face, it was sexy to lick and play with it in our mouths. She told him to come up to us and pulled his cock over as we kissed and almost as a reflex I stuck my tongue out and started licking it, then she pushed my head toward him as a signal for me to put his cock in my mouth. I remember this voice in my head saying "now your a cock sucker" but i loved how it felt. Her and I sucked his cock until he came in her mouth and I was so turned on I kissed her to share it. I actually asked her to give it to me and I swallowed and it was great! Her and I played for a while and he watched but before I knew it he was back. She got up and let us play. We sucked each other and he came in my mouth at the same time I was coming by jerking my self off and all as she was laying on the end of the bed screaming with a vibrator. That was it. I think if they would have wanted to keep going I would have, but we ended up just laying naked on the bed for talking for and hour or so and then I left. But as soon as I got home (and it was probably 4am by then) I jerked-off into my hand and ate my cum. I have seen them a few times out and about in public, the first time was fine, we chatted for a few min. but they the last few times they seem to be a bit standoffish and in fact the last time we just said hello in passing. That is my only experience to date and I think about it every day, though for a while afterward felt a little ashamed. That faded and I stared to want do it again but by this time I had met the woman I was going to marry. I satisfied my "fetish" privately by watching bisexual porn but a few months ago I decided that I would tell my wife about it and gauge her reaction. When I told her about it she thought it was hot. She asked questions about it and would ask me to tell her about it when we were getting frisky, she even gave me a couple bisexual MMF movies for my birthday for us to watch together. I finally asked her if she wanted us to do it and she said yes. We didn't have any idea how to go about meeting a guy so we went on Craig's List and set something up with a guy who answered our ad. She was involved and enthusiastic posting the ad and picking the guy. We met him at a restaurant and got comfortable with each other and arranged to get together the next Friday. That night she was very excited, she talked about what she wanted to do, what she wanted to see me do. Friday came and as soon as I came home from work she came right out said she didn't want to go through with it, she didn't give a reason, just that she didn't want to. She didn't seem angry or upset or even happy, it was just a cold flat, "I don't want to". I felt like an idiot and a little humiliated but we haven't talked about it since. Except for one thing she acts like like none of it ever happened. (the one thing? after I told her I had eaten my own cum she asks me to do it quit often) For right or wrong, I have decided that I want to do it again, even if she won't participate. It may be just to "scratch an itch" or it may be a lifestyle, I don't know yet, but I feel consumed with the desire to feel that excitement and release again. My problem is this: I have no Idea how to go about meeting a couple. For a couple reasons, I feel weird about contacting the couple I had been with, 1) because the last couple times I saw then is seemed weird, and 2) because it makes it seem a bit like a relationship. So I started to look on Craig's List and three Bi dating sites (including this one) but am finding it hard to find a couple that is looking for the same thing. Mostly it's guys whose girlfriend or wife are "working" or "out of town" but want to "hook-up tonight and include her another time"... of the 5 or 6 real couples I have been in contact with, all but 2 were wives wanting to watch me with her husband, of the other two, one was the husband wanting to watch me with his wife and the other said his wife would only have contact with him. One wife, who I told that I wasn't interested in being just with her husband, even sent me a long scathing email about how there is no such thing as bisexual and that I was gay and that I had better come to terms with that. Sorry this has been so long, it just felt good to unload. I have to think there are several out there who are in, or have been in my shoes. Does anyone out there have any advice?
Playing with a a woman and a man is very hot indeed. I am lucky in the fact that my late wife started my bi ways.We played this way for several years and most of the guys that we brought in to play were long term playmates.I have to this day never been with just a guy, and have never felt the desire to. Though watching bi porn and looking at pics of nice cocks do turn me on. One thing to remember is that being with someone else be it a woman or a man without your wife is cheating. It never leads to good things, and will bring trouble. I would over time talk about the desire that you have with your wife. Don't press it, just let her know how you feel. DO NOT harp.Now and then say little things to keep it in her mind.A lady that I was with for a couple of years, until I moved to Florida was the same way that your wife seems to be. She knew and I left it there.One day it was her idea to do something about it.She loved it. She came the first time helping me suck him as he shot in my mouth. She came again watching him fuck me.After that she wanted to at least once a month. I always let it be her idea to play. Sometimes I could prompt her by saying that a guy looked like he would be fun for us to play with.At times she would say lets go find a friend.It got to where she loved helpng him enter me from behind while she and I 69ed.She would cum many times,in the same session, while she used that strap on on me as I sucked his cock. Either play together or not at all.
