Was not a member of SBG, but thanks for the tip about JustBoys. I just joined. It was a pretty vibrant site here for a while some years ago, but it has changed and is way too quiet now.
Here's another one for you guys www.hipforums.com It's very bi friendly. I've been on there for a few months now. It's still not as good as SBG was but it's another place to go to talk and listen.