The first person to contact me here seemed nice, and after we met for coffee it turned out he was a nice guy. After a series of phone and e-mails we got together for a romp. It had been a while for me and I was apprehensive. However things went along smoothly. We showered together, hopped in the sack, and talked for a bit. I reached over and grabbed his cock and fondled for a bit then went down on him. It was wonderful. He then seemed hesitant then got into the 69 position and started sucking me off. It was the BEST blow job I ever had in my life. I did not want to swallow on this first encounter and told him. He seemed OK with it. He finished me off and proceeded to jack off himself. When he came I thought we would lay there and go a second round in a bit, but he got out of the bed and went and cleaned up. It was GOOD. He was GREAT. I figured we would meet once a week or more or less, but I thought I had found a new BUD. After several failed e-mails he showed up in the chat room, and I asked if anything was wrong. It turns out he wanted some anal action, that I do not do. So, a really great guy slipped thru my fingers. I thanked him for his time, but am sad I did not get to be with him again, and did not get to meet his wife, who also seems like a great person when I viewed her Facebook page. Who ever gets him gets a real KEEPER !! There are a lot of nice people here, but remember if you do hook up. Make sure that what you want is what they want, then you will not be disappointed.