[SIZE=3][FONT=verdana]I've listened and have read of guys who were terribly ashamed of their first time and, at least until they talked to me, were beating themselves up because of how they got their first experience with a dick. I've had to tell them that there's really no shame in it - only the shame we put on it - because we all had a first time and it's rarely in that storybook or fairy tale way we think this should happen. My first time was anything but a fairy tale but, eh, no one's first time really is and if I never regretted it, well, perhaps they shouldn't either and more so since it's over and done with and can never be changed. When I first arrived on this site, I had read a guy's first-time experience and, to me, it was typical in that an adult had his way with the guy when he was young. One of the comments I read was from a guy who started ranting and raving about how wrong that was and how the OP really got molested and, well, pretty much every bad thing that can be said about it and, nope, I wasn't surprised by that reaction one bit... but I found it disturbing that this guy felt a need to rain on someone else's parade like that and introduce some shame into an event where the OP said that he didn't feel any shame at all. The point here is that, again, not everyone has a fairy tale-like experience that first time. It's rarely based on romance but just something that a lot of guys get into, whether they "volunteer" for it or they get introduced to it in some "unsavory" way. I know of way too many guys who got introduced by a brother, cousin, uncle and, yeah, even a few dads and, sure, it's a fucked up thing to have on one's mind and more so if they weren't really all that willing to participate - it just was what it was and there is no point or reason to kick a guy's ass over it and, yeah, it's easy to be retrospective and say, "Well, it shouldn't have happened like that..." which never changes the fact that it did. There's a certain kind of comfort in knowing that however your first time happened, you're not the only one who had a similar first time so even if you felt all fucked up in the head about your first time and the way you had it, you get to see that others have had, again, a similar first time... and they're not fucked up about it at all so why should you let yourself keep being fucked up?[/FONT][/SIZE]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I've even sat and talked to guys who wanted to do this for the first time... and they didn't want to do it with me - they had someone else in mind or, perhaps, they felt that asking me would ruin something; not really sure but it didn't matter... but what did matter was that when they had that first time, they were going into it being as informed as they could be. I've had them come back after their first time with someone else and tell me how good - or how fucked up - things went and, for me, that's the hard part and more so when things didn't turn out the way they expected them to and, yeah, sometimes, I've been a guy's second time and then have heard them say, "Shit... I should have asked you in the first place..." I've seen (and had) guys go for it because they've always been curious about it; because they were ultra-horny, couldn't get any pussy, and jerking off just wasn't cutting it for them; because they got dumped by a girl, fired from a job, or some other kind of emotional trauma and having sex in a way they never really thought about before is what makes them feel better. There has never been a period in my life where I haven't had a guy asked me - and usually out of the clear blue sky, "Have you ever had sex with another guy?" - and I've learned that if a guy is asking this question, it's for one of two reasons: Either they did it once (or twice) before and want to do it again or it's been on their mind for a while and now they've decided it's time to finally do it. I've had first-timers say to me, "I don't know what it is about you but, um, I wanna suck your dick!" and, yeah, I had no idea what it was about me that put that thought into their head but, okay, if that's what you really want to do, let's talk for a moment because I know for a fact that it's about the worst thing you could ever do when you're not really sure that it's something you want and need to do. I've seen guys fret about not being good enough that first time, get bent out of shape because they lost their load really fast as well as getting bent because I didn't cum (but that didn't happen very often). I've had them ask, "Did I do it right?" and, again, they think they didn't but I'd ask them, "Did I cum?", they give me that "duh" look because I did and then tell them, "Then you did it right, huh?" Like I said, I've seen guys chicken out at the very last possible moment; I've had guys throw up - and sometimes on me (yuck); I've seen them break down and cry because they're either really happy or now feel so guilty that all they can do is cry. I've heard guys tell me about their first time and what they thought of it; wonderful, amazing, and the worst thing that ever happened to them. I've shared stories with guys who got started young like I did, didn't do anything until they were in their teens or a legal adult and even with guys who were what I termed to be "very late to the party" and are older and with a lot of life experience but who also found that having sex with a guy was the thing in their life that they'd been missing.[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I've given so many guys their first experience and it never fails to amaze me to see how they react to it, from chickening out at the very last moment to throwing up and breaking down and crying during and/or after the fact and if I haven't learned anything from this, it's that when you're giving a guy his first time, you want and need to take good care of him and I don't mean by just giving him a mindblowing blow job or a good fucking. I've finished with guys and have heard them say, "That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!" or "I don't know why I never did this before now!" and sometimes I've had them tell me that they had a chance to do it before but they didn't - and now they're a little pissed off that they passed on that earlier opportunity. I've even talked to and gotten with guys who had an earlier experience but were "traumatized" by it... but now they wanted to go for it again like one guy who grew up with three very horny brothers and they made him their sex toy and at every chance they could. It really fucked with his head but I can only say that after he had a lot of years to think about it, well, it was what it was... but that didn't mean that they couldn't do it again and more so when they wanted to. That guy told me later, "It's like riding a bike, ain't it?"[/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]One of the things that has always fascinated me is a guy's first time having sex with another guy, not because it's hot and exciting to read or hear about it, but because it lends itself to me better understanding why I am the way I am. I've heard a lot of first-time stories and have "starred" in a lot of guys' first time stories, from being very young to being older - and a lot older - and while everyone's first time is different, when you know about as many first-time stories as I do, you start to see patterns emerging and it's always been fun for me to try and make sense of what I've seen over my life to date when it comes to this. Some guys hate it... at first; maybe their first time happened in a, um, less than preferred way like being taken by a relative, a close friend, or a total stranger but later, hmm, asking themselves if it was really as bad as they first thought it was - then determining that it really wasn't. Some guys take to it like fish to water; it's new, exciting, forbidden but, yeah, holy shit - it was terribly exciting and who knew that it would be? Some guys live large portions of their lives either never experimenting and not even giving a single thought about going there even though they know that guys do this to each other but that's those guys and not themselves... then, one day, they're "that guy" and they find themselves doing something they could have never imagined happening... and they liked it even though they convinced themselves that it was impossible.[/SIZE][/FONT]
My bi lifestyle wouldn’t be possible without the support of my wife of 33years. Being empty nesters and having grandkids sex sometimes got put on the back burner. After our kids finished collage and started their careers our weekends consisted of household chores and occasional hot sex. In the past 3 years since coming out to each other our sex lives have litterly exploded. I no longer have to hide my love for cock and she no longer has to hide her girlfriends. Both she and I are getting all the dick and pussy we can handle, and we have cultivated a nice circle of like minded people we are comfortable with. Joining our current swingers group is one of the funnest things she and I participate in. Besides our group settings we also play with them individually and even get to service some of her friends outside our group. Sharing my wife with my buddy has become a regular 2 or 3 times a week thing. I gotta say that it makes me super hard seeing her bent over the bed taking his huge cock, I’m there to lick his his balls as he is pounding her and tasting his sweet cum as he shoots it deep. The wife is amazed that even though we are very similar in cock size, she says that we both fuck her totally different, she often says that blindfolded she could identify who is fucking her. Her petite little pussy gets used often and she loves it. She has a like minded friend who she turned me onto about a year ago, single professional no time for a boyfriend just a fuck toy and I fill that ticket. She has been a once a week get together for over a year now. Sometimes it’s a 3some with these 2 hot women and myself. Watching my wife eat my cum out of her pussy always gets me ready for round 2. So it goes without saying without her approval my sex life would be in the tank.
I have had the pleasure a few times of eating shaved pussy. It just tastes better somehow. But I am yet to suck a shaved cock and balls. I trim my own, but the look of them completely shaved is just so good. I think it is becoming more fashionable. I hope so.
The steam room that I have visited a couple of times apparently has a younger crowd on certain nights. I can imagine older guys like me go there looking for some young cock. I can understand why. On my knees while a college student type fucks my mouth sounds very pleasurable indeed.
I have not been fucked for a long time. Since my early twenties. I really am feeling the urge for some guy to use my ass for his release. To fuck me hard. I would moan in pleasure, wanting him to fill me with his cum. All the porn I watch just makes it worse. Watching older men, on all fours, or on their backs, taking some guy's big hard cock..
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