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[rissababynta]

I've recently decided that I'm going to give in to my husband and we are going to have a threesome with another guy. Kinda nervous cause I want to make sure it's the right guy, but kinda excited at the same time. We'll see what happens.

[Kinkybiguy7]

I'm the right guy.

[MarieDelta]

Its gonna be ok, Rissa. You're a smart woman, and I'm sure your husband will enjoy.

Best of luck!

[still_shy]

Ahh to be a guy in North Carolina! LOL

Seriously though, I was really super nervous the first time and I were with another girl (I know, not quite the same thing) but it turned out pretty good for all parties! Threesomes, if done right, are sooooo much fun! Good luck sweetie!

[cliffordmontero]

congrats on the decision and happy hunting

[Realist]

Rissa, decide what you want and don't want and let everyone else know..........then, enjoy your self. You deserve to let loose now and then!

[rissababynta]

I wish a lot of you were much closer so we could all just have an orgy haha.

[Doggie_Wood]

Hey sweetie - I tried to send you a message but your in box is full - clear it out some and I'll resend the message.

Doggie :doggie:

[rissababynta]

Ok. I'll do that. A few people just recently today complained to me about that so I've been meaning to do so. I have to empty that thing all the damn time.

Making room now.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I was going to say something horribly tacky about her box being full at her threesome, but I'm gunna bite my tongue on this one.
Rissa-honey, when ya'll find the right man, have a fantastic time, and remember, YOU are running the show, so make the guidelines clear right from the "git-go"
Have fun! And you tell them boys I said to not let you up til you caint hollar no more, and til your honey caint stand without being wobbly-kneed!! lol:bigrin:
Hugzzz
Cat

[onewhocares]

I wish a lot of you were much closer so we could all just have an orgy haha.

Did some say ORGY?

Rissa....relax, enjoy, play safe. You will know if it is right. Trust your intuition and communicate.

Belle

[TaylorMade]

Good luck, Rissa... now if ya'll are looking for a lady or you're looking for a lady for yourself... hit me up and stuff. :D

*Taylor*

[12voltman59]

Have fun Rissa---I hope you find a nice person to join in on your three-way---I am sure you guys will.

Have fun!

[mikey3000]

I've recently decided that I'm going to give in to my husband and we are going to have a threesome with another guy. Kinda nervous cause I want to make sure it's the right guy, but kinda excited at the same time. We'll see what happens.

Sorry, Rissa, but is this something you want too or are you just doing it to appease your hubby? "Decided to give in" doesn't sound too enthusiastic to me. If this is something your hubby wants, would you let him play on his own till you are ready, or does he want you there too? Just curious. A threesome can be an amazing experience if you're ready for it. If not it could be a disaster.:2cents: Good luck.

[rissababynta]

Sorry, Rissa, but is this something you want too or are you just doing it to appease your hubby? "Decided to give in" doesn't sound too enthusiastic to me. If this is something your hubby wants, would you let him play on his own till you are ready, or does he want you there too? Just curious. A threesome can be an amazing experience if you're ready for it. If not it could be a disaster.:2cents: Good luck.

He is not pressuring me or giving me a problem over it. He knows that he can play on his own, but in this instance it is not about him just being with a guy. he actually wants a threesome. it is one thing that we haven't done. He has mentioned it a few times in the past but I never wanted to. It was up until recently that I decided to say screw it, if he really wants to try it, what is it really going to hurt. If we find the right guy, then I'll just go with it.

[rissababynta]

If you are nervous or are just giving into your husband do not have a 3 way.

Have one because you want to have one not because your husband does when you really do not.

Yeah I know. If I was doing it even though I was totally against it, then I would have done it years ago.

And I think not doing it becaues I'm nervous is kind of silly in a way. Everyone is nervous when they try new things. Doesn't mean that you run away and never try cause then you'll never know what could have been.

[darkeyes]

Yeah I know. If I was doing it even though I was totally against it, then I would have done it years ago.

And I think not doing it becaues I'm nervous is kind of silly in a way. Everyone is nervous when they try new things. Doesn't mean that you run away and never try cause then you'll never know what could have been.

Lil word of advice Riss me luffly... ifya decide 2 go ahead asya seem 2 hav..throw yasel in2 it body an soul an reely enjoy. But ifya eva hav ne doubt woteva..don matta at wot point a the proceeedins... end it ther an then... if ya hubbie luffs ya enuff he will undastand an accept that..an the otha guy hasta also. Make sure they kno that fore yas start.. make sure hubbie knos fore anotha partner is even lined up..is important ya get the rite 1 hun..3 somes can b amazin fun.. but if they go rong they can also b incredibly destructive on relationships an events can turn nasty... an last thing me wonts 2 c is ne 1 hurt through doin summat they hav ne doubts bout.. so jus b sure me luffly..an hope all goes brill for yas all... kissie

[rissababynta]

Lil word of advice Riss me luffly... ifya decide 2 go ahead asya seem 2 hav..throw yasel in2 it body an soul an reely enjoy. But ifya eva hav ne doubt woteva..don matta at wot point a the proceeedins... end it ther an then... if ya hubbie luffs ya enuff he will undastand an accept that..an the otha guy hasta also. Make sure they kno that fore yas start.. make sure hubbie knos fore anotha partner is even lined up..is important ya get the rite 1 hun..3 somes can b amazin fun.. but if they go rong they can also b incredibly destructive on relationships an events can turn nasty... an last thing me wonts 2 c is ne 1 hurt through doin summat they hav ne doubts bout.. so jus b sure me luffly..an hope all goes brill for yas all... kissie

Thanks Fran. Yes, we have already talked about this too. We decided long ago that if we ever did decide to take the plunge into a threesome that if any one of us at any point started feeling uncomfortable we would not continue on. We have already discussed and set the boundaries...mainly mine since my husband doesn't seem to have any lol...but still they are set and if they are not understood by anyone who wants to join, then it's a no go.

[Karasel]

Well, recently a friend of mine's sister recently got in touch with me, asking if would like to have a threesome with her and husband. At first I was a little overwhelmed because I've never done a threesome before. But since I know them, and they are seasoned threesomeaires, I don't feel too nervous anymore.

I did agree to talk to them, and in a day or two we'll actually seal the deal.

I recommend finding someone that you know to join in, it adds to the comfort level for the first time... At least it does for me. Who knows you might not even have to look, and just have someone come up to you, like what happened to me. :D

[Doggiestyle]

Wow Rissa, Going all out - all shag nasty huh? Thats cool allright! I have been away from my computer for a while. So sorry for the late posting because, by now, I guess it's either done or in process of being done. Well I hope you, your hubby, and whomever else it may concern had enough fun, that you would want to do it again and again and again and again and again and again and again, aw you know what I mean. ;)

One thing you really want to be real careful about it. Do not get caught!!! With you and your hubby, living on a Army Post, a rumor like this would spread as fast as fire on gasoline!!! And by the time everybody adds their :2cents: into the story. You would gain quite a reputation. :eek:

Well I just chimed in there with my :2cents: So I guess i'll go.________Your friend, :doggie: