PDA

View Full Version : Theory of a clueless anthropologist: bi-men: sex vs. love?



Nisse
Feb 14, 2006, 12:13 AM
It's been my observation of the bi men on this site that there are a lot of us that are not really into men except for the sexual side of them;
I´m quoting grant 33 in the thread "Questions from a straight spouse"

I have a theory, more an idea, that i´m not sure is true in any way. But if someone thinks there´s something to it, please comment.

Here´s the silly theory:
1. It is very hard/impossible to tame sexual desires. It´s built into our bodies.
2. It´s easier to tame who you love since you can decide to whom you open your heart. (remember that many never fall in "love", but only "very very very much like" someone).
3. Maybe you are beforehand contitioned to fall only in love with the opposite sex.

And that´s why we need to suck fallus, but love pussy.

I believe in crazy love, and that if you fall in love with someone of your own sex, then booom! Your´e out. And I also believe in what Elly Fitz sang, that "comes love, nothing can be done".

Are some of us not really into men but only the sexual side of them, because we are conditioned to tame ourselves?

:)