This one for both Tops and bottoms.

[dowmass]

Of late, I am finding it to get fully hard?stay small and soft sometimes.
The last time, my virile top didn?t pay any attention to that. He was so happy with my manpussy that he went on and on for over an hour and a half. I for one, had many earth shattering orgasms inside.. i did not leak jizz, but it was so satisying that my soft dick didn?t matter. My top said he?d cosnsidermy dick a clit, and so it was fine.

As a top, have you fucked someone with a soft dick?

If your bottom had a soft dick would that be a distraction?

[KDaddy23]

I have and it's not a distraction... then again, I know some stuff about why the guy I'm topping isn't rock-hard. I don't pretend to understand why some guys feel that a bottom with a hard dick while being fucked has to be a "thing" - some guys get amazing boners being topped and some guys just don't. I've bottomed for guys and the only way my dick got hard was by him or myself stroking my dick and, really, I've been too busy being fucked to be thinking about whether my dick was hard or not. Thought that was a problem - found out that it isn't. All it means is that the guy being fucked can't get hard being fucked - nothing unusual about it. Just saying. I know why... it's not that simple to explain. And if you're a top and your bottom not being hard "bothers" you, why does it? If you're a bottom and worried about it, um, why?

As someone who has always been versatile in this, being soft while being fucked isn't something that concerns me in any way.

[Jazminedress]

what kdaddy said

[Tight1-4u]

I know that for me being sub bottom, bottom only.. the majority of the time unless he spends time to be very direct about getting me hard I don’t get hard from being fucked.. and I would say that 95% of the guys that fuck me don’t care or even know weather I am hard or not.. I get so much pleasure from my pussy.. if you have never had deep internal anal orgasms you need new partners!! There is nothing better.. almost every guy is only concerned with where their cock is and how it feels deep in me.. they don’t even think about if I am hard.. and to be honest we are both busy doing what we are doing and enjoying what we are doing really to notice..

[Christopher South]

The last guy I had a long-term relationship with didn't get hard. I enjoyed fucking him and he could lay with his soft cock while I fucked him and could cum. One of my favorite things was to scoop up his cum, coat my cock with it and continue fucking him

[Fzmr9t]

I?m a soft bottom, but I make up for it by being extremely attentive to whomever I?m with. I?m very oral and love to use my hands to bring my partner pleasure

[Neonaught]

I have known a couple of bottoms that had prostate surgery and don't get hard. They still cum when I fuck them properly so it doesn't bother me.

[Cdnbi]

I’m purely a bottom and I’ll echo what the other bottoms have said every top I’ve been with doesn’t seem to notice whether I’m hard or soft. That being said I go back and forth. Some sessions I’m hard the entire time, sometimes I’m soft. However especially if things go on a little longer I go from hard to soft and back and forth depending what spot that top is hitting. It doesn’t effect my pleasure levels if I’m soft. Just trust it feels soooo good for me regardless.

[KDaddy23]

The gay boyfriend I had long ago would sometimes be hard when I was in him and sometimes not. Hell, most of the time, he was rock-hard before I'd get in him because I'd been sucking his dick prior to entry and, again, he'd either stay hard or he'd go soft. He didn't seem to think that this was a problem and never mentioned such a thing to me and, truthfully, I never knew it was a concern until "recently." I've been fucked and experienced orgasms and have leaked and even ejaculated a few times while being soft. Thought that was impossible but, yeah, it can happen but not as a matter of course and definitely not something all guys who get boned experience.

If anything, I can see a top being concerned about this because a soft dick can be construed as the bottom not liking what's being done to him... and methinks that's a "wrong" way to look at it. He's not hard... because his body ain't behaving like that and not all that unexpected since, um, that part of our body normally doesn't like having intruders coming in. Having said that, when I've been given "da finger" by my doctor as he pokes my prostate, I've felt myself getting hard and, once, I did get hard because he took quite a bit of time poking my prostate for some reason. But, I think, that's different than having a hard dick in there and one's prostate might not be getting the business in a way to cause an erection. I just don't think it's that big of a deal but can understand why someone might think it is or should be. I've been hard before being penetrated and at the moment the dick goes in, my boner has left the building. Oh, well. The guys fucking me never said anything about it so there was no reason to be concerned about something I learned I have no control over.

[mtnmen2]

I use to get hard on occasion when I was younger but for the last 6 years I've been playing I never get hard, most of the time I'm caged anyway. When I top I never care if their cock is hard or soft. I'll play with it either way.

[centillini]

Everytime I topped, it didnt matter to me if he was hard or not, as long as he enjoyed it which did.

[centillini]

One thing we need to get over is dont need erection to have orgasmn. The greatest orgasms (4 in row), was when gf fingered my ass when had me tied up.

[Neonaught]

One thing we need to get over is dont need erection to have orgasmn. The greatest orgasms (4 in row), was when gf fingered my ass when had me tied up.

I agree. All the happy bottoms I have given anal orgasms to didn't ejaculate from it. Eventually they did shoot though.