Married bisexual females

[xp243]

I'm a married bisexual man and my wife found out about my bi side about 4 years ago but does not agree to it. She knows my desires I told her I would not cheat on her but would like a 3some or with a couple. I need advice from other women on how to get her on board with being bisexual.

[DareMe]

Hang on there buddy. You may find it easier to have her accept you as you are than to try and "make" her bisexual.

If she stuck with you for the past 4 years after you told her about it, chances are, she already has accepted you.

What do you want out of the relationship with her?

DM

[softfruit]

I'm a left a bit confused - what exactly is it she doesn't "agree to"?

Is it acknowledging that you are bisexual, mentioning to her or to friends about past partners / relationships that were not with women?

[mpine86]

I'm a married bisexual man and my wife found out about my bi side about 4 years ago but does not agree to it. She knows my desires I told her I would not cheat on her but would like a 3some or with a couple. I need advice from other women on how to get her on board with being bisexual.

Hi there bud... I’m very sorry to hear that your situation, but I think there are a couple of things to address here. First, you said she “found out” about your bisexuality - did you talk to her or did she catch you doing something behind her back? Second, there’s nothing saying she’ll never come around, but if she’s known for 4 years and still isn’t down with you exploring, I’d hate to say she may not ever warm up to the idea but you need to prepare yourself for that. Last but not least, if you love that woman then realize that it’s all about her. You cannot get anyone “on board” with something - people get on board on their own terms.

I’m very blessed to have a wife that loves my bisexual side, and it was a bit of a rocky introduction, but within about a month of telling her she was 100% present to help me grow and explore. She even found that it’s the most erotic thing she never knew she wanted in her life. But the point is that she got there on her own terms. I talked with her as much as she was willing to, and gave her tons of space with it when she needed it. Maybe try that approach; talk to her sincerely about how you feel and what you want to do about it, but reassure her at every opportunity that she is the most precious thing in your universe and nothing will ever change that. But let her know that you need to be honest with her about who you are because you love her. Nothing expected in return (initially at least) but getting to the truth of the matter.

i wish you lots of luck, and I’ll try to see if I can get my lovely bride to come on here and explain how she got “on board” in her own words.

[xp243]

Hang on there buddy. You may find it easier to have her accept you as you are than to try and "make" her bisexual.

If she stuck with you for the past 4 years after you told her about it, chances are, she already has accepted you.

What do you want out of the relationship with her?
DM
I would love to have a 3some mmf with her.

[xp243]

Hi there bud... I’m very sorry to hear that your situation, but I think there are a couple of things to address here. First, you said she “found out” about your bisexuality - did you talk to her or did she catch you doing something behind her back? Second, there’s nothing saying she’ll never come around, but if she’s known for 4 years and still isn’t down with you exploring, I’d hate to say she may not ever warm up to the idea but you need to prepare yourself for that. Last but not least, if you love that woman then realize that it’s all about her. You cannot get anyone “on board” with something - people get on board on their own terms.

I’m very blessed to have a wife that loves my bisexual side, and it was a bit of a rocky introduction, but within about a month of telling her she was 100% present to help me grow and explore. She even found that it’s the most erotic thing she never knew she wanted in her life. But the point is that she got there on her own terms. I talked with her as much as she was willing to, and gave her tons of space with it when she needed it. Maybe try that approach; talk to her sincerely about how you feel and what you want to do about it, but reassure her at every opportunity that she is the most precious thing in your universe and nothing will ever change that. But let her know that you need to be honest with her about who you are because you love her. Nothing expected in return (initially at least) but getting to the truth of the matter.

i wish you lots of luck, and I’ll try to see if I can get my lovely bride to come on here and explain how she got “on board” in her own words.
thanks for the advice I appreciate it

[querty]

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