Beatings

[mrcumsalot]

Have you ever practiced BDSM? Does the idea of having a man available to spank or cane appeal to you?

I am a male who likes rough sex with other males. When wit a man there is absolutely nothing I will not do or him or that I will not allow him to do. I love to be tied down and whippd with whatever you have at hand...a belt, stick, paddle etc... Does the idea of taking out all your days frustrations o a mans ass appeal to you? Let me hear your thoughts on this subject.

[Neonaught]

Not in the least. I have never understood people who want to hurt a lover.

[Waylon]

Never hurt involved but I do have a girl friend who enjoys having her face slapped when she is blowing me. No fists but open palms and not too hard yet firm. She got the idea after seeing a porn movie called "slaphappy" and it is part of her submissive slut fetish. She says it turns her on and reminds her to deep-throat to the balls. Otherwise I would never hit, hurt or harm a woman.

[2bi2Bboring]

The purpose of BDSM is not necessarily the pain involved but he heightened sexual state it brings with the pain. It isn't for everyone, it isn't mandatory to engage in pain seeking behavior to engage in a BDSM relationship. Some people enjoy bondage, some service, some humiliation, some age regression, there are many flavors. I would encourage those curious in the lifestyle to seek knowledge and find your niche in it. But don't damn or condemn other people's kink. Your's is no more or less different than heterosexual vanilla behavior. We are all different and searching for someone to engage in our particular freak with. So indulge, find a responsible partner and do as you will. But do it safely, responsibly and consentually.

[Gearbox]

I do love to take out my frustrations on a sub. Not violent frustrations tho, even if it does involve a whip or paddle etc.
It's to with control and the contrast between pleasure & pain + freedom & oppression etc etc yada yada yada merging into one big old sexual heightened state, as 2bi2Bboring says.

If it were just about giving & receiving pain, we could walk into any bar and pick a fight with a nutter.:tongue:

[Rambigent]

My wife and I have been exploring FemDom over the past year, and she's found that she really enjoys spanking me. I was a bit resistant to it at first, but acquiesced as it was something she was interested in trying. I've started enjoying it a lot more and even crave it sometimes now! Just one of the many new things we've tried recently that I would never have thought I'd enjoy.

[zigzig]

I like to spank my husband with hands. Don't think slapping a face would arouse me.

[woody1340]

I have the need to be roughed up. I was abused as a teen and somehow I feel satisfaction from letting men go off on me.

[Drunk Uncle]

Have done this with only one other partner. She asked to be bound (handcuffed) and whipped with my belt. Had never done anything like that but said, "what the hell.."

The handcuffs kept her in place and after warming up to it, I got after her and left her ass red. When I reached down and touched her cunt, she was drenched. I ate her from behind - keeping her cuffed - then fucked her for all I was worth. It was bizarre for me but she loved it.

We didn't work out in the long run but tried a few more other variants before we split and while I enjoyed it, it wasn't (or hasn't) been anything I've sought out since.

I also don't understand the cuckold thing, but to each his own, I say.

The Drunk Uncle

[cuttin2dachase]

I have enjoyed being the dom/sir/master in roleplay situations with both women and men. I have no desire to be submissive or to be anything more than an amateur roleplay dom. My experience has been limited to light bondage, spankings, light nipple biting/pinching, dripping candle wax and other mild bdsm activities with my 2 ex wives and several submissive bi married men. I would not be capable of or desire hardcore activities such as inflicting heavy pain or leaving a sub with with anything more than temporary red handprints on their ass and pleasantly sore nipples. I was very turned on by the illusion of having power and control over them and by their eagerness and willingness to worship my body and cock and give me use of their bodies as I pleased or commanded. They regarded the the light pain as a reward, not a punishment for their servitude. As a benevolent "master" I also rewarded them with orgasms orally and/or manually after I was completely satisfied. I've also assisted 2 married dommes in "training" their submissive hubbies. Domming is not something I'd ever adopt as a lifestyle or fetish, but it is a form of kink I very much enjoy exploring with partners who truly enjoy being submissive.

[cornholejoe]

have done some spanking and whipping but for fun some men and women like there ass turned cherry red

[monaohio]

only hurt i want that feels great is his big throbbing thick cock cumming in my ass

[txsmale55]

I want to have cock and balls tortured, and have my ass cheeks caned!