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mrlickmegood
Jul 30, 2011, 9:49 AM
who give better blow jobs men or woman , my experience is limited with men , i have had hundreds of women and i love a good blow job, and have only a dozen men suck me off just trying to please them LOL! BUT DAMN TWO OF THESE COCKSUCKERS WERE TALENTED, MY GOD I CAN SEE WHY SOME TURN TOTALY GAY FALL IN LOVE WITH HIS COCKSUCKER BUDDY. wish i had a wife that with that talent, sure some women give good blow jobs and ita sure way of getting a man ready to fuck.. whats your opinion man or woman

Long Duck Dong
Jul 30, 2011, 10:03 AM
who gives better blowjobs ??? a person that puts their heart and soul into it when they give a blowjob to a person that loves receiving the best possible blowjob that can be given

R. R. Wayne
Jul 30, 2011, 10:29 AM
I've had good blowjobs from both sexes, but men who enjoy giving them as much as they enjoy getting them, win hands down.

Gearbox
Jul 30, 2011, 2:11 PM
I've had many God awful bj's from women, but so far only one man was less than 'brilliant'.
He shall remain nameless of course.:rolleyes:

ErosUrge
Jul 30, 2011, 3:03 PM
who gives better blowjobs ??? a person that puts their heart and soul into it when they give a blowjob to a person that loves receiving the best possible blowjob that can be given

This comment is exactly correct!!!! There is nothing I can add to this to improve it and is how I've always felt.

blikeo
Jul 30, 2011, 3:36 PM
women in my experience, but i have only been with one man.

hgf33
Jul 30, 2011, 4:30 PM
I do! :bigrin:

Hahaha! Really though, what LDD said is dead-accurate.

drugstore cowboy
Jul 30, 2011, 7:07 PM
I do! :bigrin:

Hahaha! Really though, what LDD said is dead-accurate.

You wish! ;)

As someone who has been active with 100s of women and A LOT of men over the years and I got or gave oral sex to all of them I'd say that men give a far better blowjob hands down than women do.

LouiseBrooks
Jul 30, 2011, 9:14 PM
I used to think men, but now not so sure. It's evened out over the last couple of years as my sample size grows larger. I've had some just fantastic bjs from my last few female lovers, and some only serviceable (ha!) ones from my last few men. I'm inclined to think that giving head is a lot about effort, thought, and taking pride in technique which you can do regardless of your gender.

There ARE a few generalities that I can indulge, though. I've never had a really fantastic blowjob from a woman under 30 (sample size probably about 25-30 women) and three of the very best I've ever had were from women over 50 (sample size probably about 20) and maybe the best I ever had was from a woman who was 65. In men, the age doesn't seem to matter as much. I've had good ones from young guys and old codgers, and bad ones from each age bracket. But it should be said that I'm a tough grader. Most people give an enjoyable blowjob. I've only had a couple terrible ones. When I talk about a fantastic cocksucker, I'm talking about the people who sucked my cock and who sucked my cock with distinction.

hgf33
Jul 30, 2011, 9:16 PM
Hey, I am damn good! Lol. Just gotta know what you're doing, and I find it sad that too many women don't.

ErosUrge
Jul 31, 2011, 2:50 AM
Hey, I am damn good! Lol. Just gotta know what you're doing, and I find it sad that too many women don't.

I do have to chime in on this as this is true also...though there are/have been many women that were every bit as good as a man, their numbers are fewer than the men who are good at it. What's truly disappointing is when a man doesn't deliver as well; it makes no sense. I have heard many women say the same about women giving better to them orally in greater numbers than men as well. Enjoying giving orally with either sex should be an act of total joy. If not then don't bother.....no one on the receiving end likes half measures and little enthusiasm.

NotLostJustWandering
Jul 31, 2011, 3:36 AM
I hate to knock my own gender... but I'm going to knock my own gender on this one. In my experience, more women than men make an effort to do it well, the exact opposite of what one would expect. If you've got one of your own, you ought to know what to do with it, right? I've encountered far too many men who brought to the blowjob all the slow, sensitive and sensual care of a dog eating dinner.

dragon4181
Jul 31, 2011, 3:43 AM
I've encountered far too many men who brought to the blowjob all the slow, sensitive and sensual care of a dog eating dinner.

such an eloquent way to describe it lol. As a woman I always like to make sure my man is satisfied with the blowjobs he receives. I am told that sadly not many women do.

Leo james
Jul 31, 2011, 6:20 AM
I must admit that men get into suckin cock more than MOST women. I have known several women who were better but most just want to finish.

hgf33
Jul 31, 2011, 2:04 PM
Men have one, so they know what they like, but women also have tons of resources thrown at them on how and what to do. There are shared stories, help sites, how-to articles, how-to-do-it-better articles, and even classes and demonstrations. Either they try them with an open mind and they work, or they try too many things at once and just don't get it. You have to love it and put effort into it to make it worthwhile. Basically, be creative, but not SO creative that you're all over the place! I think women get nervous, or they think they have to do whatever they see in porn. My bf and I watch a lot porn, and we both agree that NO ONE should get their oral ideas from porn! Just go at it without thinking too much. Feel it out. Get into it. Enjoy it. A woman who, herself, gets turned on while giving head, is probably doing a good job! (Dammit, now I want to do it! Stupid thread topic... Lol!)

I haven't been with enough girls to know if they're generally better than men at oral, but I haven't met anyone who can do it better than my boyfriend. (Although, he WAS taught by lesbians, he takes the time to learn what I like and puts effort into making it even better.) The girl I was with was clueless. She thinks every woman functions the same. Talk about annoying. My boyfriend even used me as a human diagram to show her what I like, and still... No clue.

I think maybe the answer to this is not which gender does it better. It's more about each individual, separately. Some people are also just naturally good, and some will never get it. And sometimes, it's ok if you lack in technique, as long as you have the enthusiasm. When someone is eager to please, it's a huge turn on!

Pasadenacpl2
Jul 31, 2011, 2:07 PM
I've always found that it is the talent and desire of the person, and their gender didn't matter. I've had fantastic blowjobs by both genders, and some really lackluster ones by both as well.

Pasa

bibottominca
Aug 14, 2011, 4:18 AM
I know I give great head. Much better than my wife. I think most met that like it are better then women.

chook
Aug 14, 2011, 7:45 PM
I reckon my Electrolux leaves any male or female at the starting line when it comes to blowjobs and if the fucking thing shits itself you just go buy another one. :smilies15

Cheers Chook :bigrin:

innaminka
Aug 14, 2011, 8:54 PM
There is a point to be made about doing something better if you know all about it.

I have never had my penis sucked for the excellent reason I don't have one - therefore I can only go on what I instinctively think might be good and from the instructions (if any) from the receiver.

I never had any complaints.

However, i do believe that there may a level of truth in that if a man knows what really feels great, he will be able to transfer that knowledge into his own work.

I base this on the belief that - sorry guys - I believe women give oral sex to other women with greater intesnsity than men.
Mainly because they know what feels really, really really good rather than just really good.

lv69cpl69
Aug 14, 2011, 11:10 PM
the best? the one with my dick at that time:tong: never had a bad one:male:

retrosoul1961
Aug 15, 2011, 12:06 PM
Guys suck cock better,just ask me:tongue:

jimisbi
Aug 17, 2011, 10:58 PM
It's not a whole gender that is better at sucking cock, but rather individuals. I think I am the best at sucking cocks. If any of the guys don't believe me then come and see me and I'll give you a blowjob to prove my point.

funbimm43
Aug 17, 2011, 11:15 PM
I have to say that both give great blowjobs, but the best and most erotic was from a man who knew and and enjoyed what he was doing.