what type of bisexual are you?

[bigbadmax]

Many labels can be applied to people.....but what type of bisexual are you

eg. vanilla, mongomous with extra bit on the side, cd, s&m etc

please give meanings with each reply ...what defines/makes the sub group to which you belong?


keep smiling

[ubersmack]

I'd say monogomous with some on the side.

Happily married to a beautiful woman. I won't have sex with another woman, but every now and again I need to scratch that itch and get it on with a guy. That sex is simply just sex with no emotional bond.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I'm the best kind there is...I'm Me...:bigrin:
Silly Cat

[bityme]

Having been married to two wonderful bisexual women whit whom I shared everything, I never had to worry about cheating or doing something on the side. Now a widower for the second time, I am still my open, uninhibited self.

I'm just a bisexual guy who enjoys bringing pleasure to others and I am comfortable with any pleasure one derives from the interaction of two or more human bodies regardless of gender.

It truly is a wonderful life.

Pappy

[MarshallP]

I am the type of bisexual that would like to explore couples play and maybe a polyamorus kinda situation i typically dont know what the criteria is for finding such a situation but i value what both sexes bring to my senses of intimacy and fullfillment. but would love to find out if that should be my path of discovery...I consider myself detached ithink it makes it easier to be with both so as to not come between a couple becuz i would treasure the closeness of them both...i guess thats about right:three::flag4:

[innaminka]

I'm like Cherokee - I'm me!

I'm too old to worry about labels.

All I know is I'm not hetero.

[llllllllll]

is part of the ME generation

[firefighter38111]

I'm like Cherokee - I'm me!

I'm too old to worry about labels.

All I know is I'm not hetero.

i like that quote
I am a very athletic guy married to a sexy wife but from navel to knees I feel very feminine. I am very ok with that and so is my wife. Most of the time I am her g/f and sometimes I am her bitch. I can slam it in to her sometimes but it’s rare.
There are times when we both enjoy her getting some size and me cleaning her up
And there are times when I need to lay back massage my “clit” some; pull my panties aside and smile at her as I get some size.
I am definitely not heterosexual

[xercisecoach]

I'm a single bi male that loves everyone.... women, men, CDs, shemales and tranny women.
I am open to one on one and multiple bodies entangled within eachother.

Life is short make it as fun as you possibly can.

OH, my ex hates that i love to fuck everything and she lays on her back and takes it, i love getting it doggie style, LOL.

[Paragon]

What's the term for when it really pisses you off when guys get super handsy during a BJ or make an attempt to touch your nipples? Whatever it is, that's what I am.

Aren't there any guys out there that just want to give a decent blow job without falliing in love on your stomach?

[jem_is_bi]

I am not sure what kind of bisexual I am.
I do not fantasize about sex with women.
Yet, some women are so beautiful, nice and definitely sexually exciting.
But, when I am sexually excited, I hunger for oral sex with a man.
That said, most everything that is really important to me has nothing to do with sex.

[Jessicaknight]

I'm a very open minded Bisexual
Open with Women, Male & Couple Bisexuality.

[slipnslide]

Umm, I'm the kind of bisexual who likes girls and dudes :tongue:

[silkydave]

i am who i am and that's who I am :bigrin:

[tomm44]

im a guy that loves women but sometimes need a cock. the internet is the place i end up in. no chat, just a cock lol

[codybear3]

Greetings to all my old friends and new ones to be made... Ain't been here for a while and now here I am...

I have been Bi-sexual since before I knew there was a word for it... That label has not changed who I have always been... :paw::paw:

[NjbiGuy01]

The best bi sex I ever enjoyed always was with a MF Couple in a threesome.
Something about pleasing both, as they pleased one another and also pleased me, can be very hot and very fulfilling. I never really enjoyed sex MM or MMM quite as much. Not to say that was not fun, but the MFM, for me at least, couldn't be beat. Just my personal preference. :bigrin:

[Pasadenacpl2]

I'm a bisexual man out of closet with wife and friends (but not parents or children), in an open but deeply committed and loving marriage.

Or, since I LoLed when reading this:...I like having sex with chicks and dudes.

Pasa

[JP1986UM]

Pasadena and I are like bookends in this instance.

Ditto for all of it

[hjack]

Women are and will always be my number one focus.

Though I can't deny that I think cocks are fascinating.

[man65here]

interesting question

but very hard to answer

[djpapabear]

New here ...First post

Have always considered myself BInogamous.

Just one of each and I will be content and fulfilled.

Half way there now !!

[Realist]

What kind of bisexual am I? I think I am unique, have interests and desires that don't seem to be the norm, I rarely let others sway my interests, thoughts, or deeds. I do not require others to define me, I do not follow the crowd. I need love to develop relationships, don't have one-night stands, have gone for years without a lover, because I won't settle for less than I want. I do not condemn others for being different; as long as they do not infringe on my life, or my loved ones, they can do whatever they like.

Oh, by-the-way.............
Welcome, Papabear! There's at least one person here, who you will relate to and be able to communicate with. You will find both friends and trolls, too. Pick who you like, feel comfortable with and just ignore the rest. I do!

[seawizard]

I am vanilla. I am happily married to a wonderful woman but just have cravings for a nice cock once and awhile. I enjoy bringing pleasure to those I meet. I just try and keep it simple.

[bigbadmax]

hi all,

reason i posted this is many fold. I attended my first bicon in Aug and was firstly shocked that cross dressers, polyamorous and transgender peeps were there.... I felt out of place as i thought bisexual was being physically attracted in same sex as your own.... I suppose I am vanilla according to most at the bicon as I dont cheat on my partner without their permission and possibly their inclusion.

Was really strange to attend a bicon and main topic of discussion was politics....personally i would have preferred more down to earth topics such as what is the best lube...whats your fave position and other mundane info.

The bicon did not even have a workshop to explain all the different aspects to sexuallity...pretty bread and butter stuff but important to newbies.

I love this site as you can be yourself and any relevent (?) questions are answered in a friendly manner...also some incredibly stupid questions are put in their place as well!

keep smiling

bbm

[ohbimale]

I am a bisexual man who prefers sex with men, but also enjoys sex with women. I would love to have 1 or more male fwb on a regular basis. So I guess I am ME, just a bisexual guy. :male::male:

[bigbadmax]

I'd rather educate people about my sexuality than get wrapped up in politics and only surround myself with people who I agree with politically.

I did enjoy the conference, however felt it was rather amatuerish..... As a newbie to conferences I found it dissapointing in that it was geared up to long time attendees and number crunchers(so called surveys on sexuallity etc)

personally i am very much monogomous and most of the attendees were classed as polyamorous...my own thoughts on this is that these poly peeps are affraid of commital and are also using that label as a means to cheat on each other and not feel guilty.

Pass the stirring pot please as i think this may antagonise a few people lol

bbm

[nudistharry]

I'm a frustrated bisexual. Haven't been with a guy for many years. I don't know anyone locally who is bi (I've only lived here for a couple of years and don't know many people outside of work.) The area I moved from was an ultra-conservative area and this area isn't much better.

[nottheonlyone]

I find this question fascinating in and of itself because we are so varied. There are certain things I do know about myself. 1.) I have always been attracted to men and women. With Women being a little more attractive to me than men. 2.) It is just easier for me to be in a monogamous relationship right now, but that doesn't mean I don't fantasize.... 3.) giving oral sex to men or women is just so much fun. So I guess that is what kind of bisexual I am.

[amiamema]

I am a rare type of bisexual that I sometimes call unisexual. I don't pay any attention to gender; I don't care if a person is male or female; I'm not attracted to masculinity nor femininity, I just like universally human qualities, like honesty, integrity, compassion, caring, and most especially cuddly affectionateness. :flag1::bibounce:

[EL_PATO]

Woof! I'm just a dawg. I mostly chase the booty of women, maybe because its easier to catch. Looves the brown and black! Both sexes. I'm pretty brown myself though. If u live in the Stockholm area and know you're hot, holler at me!

[nicco413]

I have enjoyed cock AND pussy from preteens and love the interaction with another person more than worrying about their gender.
Married for over 35 years and now widowed my wife and I did have a healthy and rewarding sex life and discovered that we were both bisexual and many other sides to our sexuality too, included the fact that we loved masturbating in front of each other. She discovered she was bi when a work colleague stopped over to go to a party and we showered individually, then strollled around in bathrobes-not for long!!
She loved that but was never comfortable to share a guy with me sexually happy to watch me and him but felt it would be cheating. She did enjoy using a vib on me and that probably prepared mde for my first anal receive - about two years ago and very enjoyable.
Now I am widowed I have enjoyed several threesomes with friends, both mmm, mfm, and mff and several one on one with bi friends.
Mind you I miss her to bits and will never forget our life together and exploration of our mutual bisexuality- so wonderful an experience.

[enigmacouple]

I enjoy women immensely! But sometimes, it is erotic to suck a cock and do some kissing on a :tongue::tongue::tongue::tongue:man. Why put labels on anyone. Just enjoy the moment!!

[dafydd]

totally monogomous, open minded, and kind
:bigrin:

[memoca]

i only like sharing sex with my wofy and a guy qho fuck us both:bibounce:

[toffa_mahli]

I really don't have a label. I love men and women. I have been in a polyamorous relationship as well as one-on-one relationships. They are both pleasant and enjoyable. I don't think love is limited. If shared, it doesn't divide, it grows :)

[CUMM2LBV]

UNDEFINED. UNLABELED. NO URGE, REQUIREMENT OR NEED TO BE EITHER

[bigbadmax]

Thought I would play Lazzerus with this....

bbm

[centillini]

monogamas, but want to find a couple where guy is bi and explore new horizons or a shemale, mmmmmmm

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I'm rather fussy with men. I dont like hairy men, only shaven and soft skin, no beards or mostaches.....
I like a sexy young man though to give me ral sex and vica versa. just love it!!!
i am open to women aswell, shemales, other crossdressers who i have had sex with it countless times, but i wont go anal.

[sammie19]

Quite a nice one.:)

[wrhull1960]

Hmmm... What kind of bisexual, well late bloomer, inexperienced, gender fluid, ready <lol> picky (hence the ready comment) Gosh I don't know labels stink. Its like signing up for something you don't want, limitation.

[darkeyes]

Quite a nice one.:)

A nice lil tart indeed wee Craigie.. wiv a gud sense a sense a style.. cept in shoes.. ther ya hav no taste woteva!:bigrin:

[still_shy]

I'm an equal opportunity lover. I like who I like and have fun when I can. Past that, I don't label myself further...I enjoy sex with women more than sex with men, yet I'm married to a man. Go figure :)

[Realist]

I understand that, Shy.

During my 2nd marriage, I enjoyed being with my male lover, much more than my wife. Now, I enjoy my GF better than any guy, ever. Like you, I love who I love and, at different periods of my life, the pendulum of desire has swung both ways.

[darkeyes]

I'm an equal opportunity lover. I like who I like and have fun when I can. Past that, I don't label myself further...I enjoy sex with women more than sex with men, yet I'm married to a man. Go figure :)

...is gud 2 c ya lil chops on 'ere 'gain, Shy me luffly... an who am I 2 argue wivya lil statement as 2 the merits of makin luff 2 women as opposed 2 the lesser mortals among us.. tee hee:tong:

[still_shy]

...is gud 2 c ya lil chops on 'ere 'gain, Shy me luffly... an who am I 2 argue wivya lil statement as 2 the merits of makin luff 2 women as opposed 2 the lesser mortals among us.. tee hee:tong:

Ahhh Frannie, if only we'd moved across the world instead of across the States. We'd have had a good time darlin :) In a purely platonic way, of course :P I wouldn't want to aggravate Kate!! xoxo

[vpilot69]

I am a bisexual, which to me means I like both women and men. I prefer to engage in a situation where both men and women are involved over one in which only another man or woman is engaged with me, although I am certainly open to either of those as well.

[two spirits]

I'm the kind of bisexual that find most pleasure from pleasing my partner whether male or female Oh I guess that makes me submissive bisexual lol

[SxyStar]

I am vanilla. I am happily married to a wonderful woman but just have cravings for a nice cock once and awhile. I enjoy bringing pleasure to those I meet. I just try and keep it simple.

I completely agree with u. I guess that I am vanilla too. I am happily married to a great man, but have cravings for being with a woman too. When it comes to me being with a woman, and me being married. I make sure that I discuss it with him, before anything does happen. I respect him, and repect his feelings. :female:

[Bisexual Explorer]

I am a bisexual explorer learning more about my sexuality with each new experience with men and women. I have met some really nice people as well.

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[darkeyes]

Ahhh Frannie, if only we'd moved across the world instead of across the States. We'd have had a good time darlin :) In a purely platonic way, of course :P I wouldn't want to aggravate Kate!! xoxo

Purely platonic??? ...but of course yummie gorge person.. zif we wud annoy me luffly Naggy by doin owt otha..:tong:;) 2 misquote Eliza in My Fair Lady... "We are good girls we are...":bigrin:

[biinlou]

I nice guy who happens to be bisexual. I really have never classified my life through a sexual spectrum. I know that bisexuals need the company and support of other bisexuals. We need to stick together. I wish there were more social outlets for bisexuals without promoting our sexuailty per se. Straights and gays generally dont understand true bisexuality.

[chapear]

Have a guy, need a gal. Open to other stuff also.

[the sacred night]

I'm a single bi male that loves everyone.... women, men, CDs, shemales and tranny women.


That's not everyone :) Trans men, gender neutral/gender fluid/gender queer people, intersex people, and possibly others are not on your list.

[still_shy]

Purely platonic??? ...but of course yummie gorge person.. zif we wud annoy me luffly Naggy by doin owt otha..:tong:;) 2 misquote Eliza in My Fair Lady... "We are good girls we are...":bigrin:

Good girls we are, darling ;) I've been known to behave myself a time or two!

[cuttin2dachase]

I think there are just 2 types of bisexual people....single bisexuals (includes "single", "divorced", "widowed", "unattached" and "separated") and partnered bisexuals (includes "married", "attached", "in a relationship", "with a significant other", could include "separated" too). And each bisexual person, no matter which relationship status he/she is in, desires and enjoys certain types of sex and intimacy with women and with men and with both women and men...it's as simple as that, but can be complex! Case in point, I am bi, separated and divorcing, unattached (virtually single LOL) and free to seek intimacy and sex with whomever I want! If love finds me again, it shall be with a bi or str8 woman who shares my attitudes and desires emotionally and sexually and lets me be me !

[AsianDream]

I'm in a long term polyamorous relationship (a MMFF group) - non-vanilla. All of us are bisexual and sex between us always involves watersports plus often role-play etc.

Non exclusive - though strictly safe sex only outside the relationship.

[frontierman2011]

I am vanilla. I am happily married to a wonderful woman but just have cravings for a nice cock once and awhile. I enjoy bringing pleasure to those I meet. I just try and keep it simple.

If this is the definition of "Vanilla" then this is exactly what I am also...

[roy m cox]

hmmm I'll take a man and a woman "er " no wait I'll take a woman and a man aw i think I'll take both at the same time and save time and trouble ,, hmmm nono i think I'll just go for two guy's um well no two woman oh can't make up my mind , ah crap well just give me two of each yeah 2 guys and 2 girls :bigrin: yummy fun :bigrin:

[sterculius]

I like to refer to myself as a "straight, male cocksucker" because while women have always been my primary sexual focus, I love giving blowjobs. But this is the ONLY sexual activity I'll engage in with another man. No kissing, cuddling, hugging and NO anal at all!! But having said that, I LOVE being on my knees in front of a guy while he grabs me by my head and energetically fucks my face! I'm able to suppress my gag reflex in order to allow a man to repeatedly thrust his cock all the way down my throat! I absolutely love being throatfucked!! The rougher, the better. I don't want to be abused or humiliated, but I enjoy being submissive and allowing men to orally dominate me and use my mouth and throat as a cum receptacle for their sexual gratification. I don't want to receive a blowjob from them in return. It's not just that I like to suck cock, I LOVE being a "cocksucker"

[tvoyemat]

I'm romantically hetero, but sexually kinky. I love the intimacy of monogamy with a woman I'm in love with, but also love the times I'm free to explore all the other things that turn me on, like group sex, anonymous sex, wet sex and most of all, lovely hard cocks.

[ohbimale]

I am a bisexual man who prefers oral sex with men, turned by men more than women, but I still enjoy sex with women ocaasionally. I would like a guy or two to have as fwb on a regular basis. So I guess I am just me.